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Great gain

When you have little children around, you will often learn more from them than you could attempt to teach. Warming up for the resumption of school in September, we bought school bags for Dee and Jay. Dee’s bag is a simple satchel – nice...

I don’t want to leave childhood!

Me: “Dee, why did you do that? Are you a child?” Dee: “Yes, mum, I am a child.” Me: “I mean, are you a baby?” Dee: “Mum, I am a big baby. I am not yet 12.” Me: I grinned silently. After a few minutes...

Dredge

One of the things I respect about the Dutch people is the firm grip they have on dealing with waterways – a treasure that emerged from the hard lessons learned in the early ’50s. From a leisure boat cruise in the canal to a weekend of...

Sit Up or Out

I have observed again and again that God always has His replacement handy. One prayer that my father, Reverend Olusola Areogun, always leads us in is that our replacement will always be jobless. God’s work cannot die; it may suffer if handled by a...

Times & Seasons

Like my father, Rev. Olusola Areogun will always say, ‘Our life is packed in capsule of time.’ Like a book, we flip open different pages and chapters of our lives. Seasons come and go. We meet people, we forge new relationships. Some are...

Iye

You call me ‘Chem.’ A special name just for me! I have a memory of you spanking me just twice. Those two things you spanked me for, I never repeated. You barely give me chance to call you as you would call a minimum of five times a week. They always...

The Fulcrum

I still remember the feeling I use to have when I am bracing to jump the rope during skipping game (las las, as we normally call it). The feeling when the count is ongoing, and I am calculating when to jump in without getting caught by the rope...

Keep growing

One of the things I hated as a child was wearing oversized shoes and clothes. I just didn’t like the way the stuffed tissue papers hurt my feet. I told myself that I will not make my children wear oversized stuff just because they were kids. I...

Safe space

Summer break is almost coming to an end. Such relief! Teachers can gladly have their kids back to school. I still wonder how teachers in KG and lower primary do it. They are the real heroes! This long break, my son’s energy level has been over the...

He for she – celebrating fathers

Yesterday, I saw a funny photo of two women carrying placards. One says – ‘stop celebrating Father’s Day’ and the other reads, ‘fathers don’t deserve to be celebrated.’ I could not help but laugh but I am sure they were not making jokes. I had a...